Finally, your wedding day has come and today you are going to marry. The excitement and nervous both emotions you both are having. Now there is no need of long night calls when you will be in each other’s arms. And for this moment you have been waiting since your engagement. You both are thinking about your first marriage night that how it is going to be, how it would be and how it would begin. There are many questions that come into a couple’s mind. But the thing is that it is not what you expect and think. There is a huge difference between reality and expectation. 

Expectation Vs Reality That no One Gonna Tell You Before Your First Wedding Night 

My wedding night like this movie

 So many Bollywood and Hollywood movies you must have watched together and when any romantic scene came you must have thought that on your wedding night it is going to be like this same movie, which is not, perhaps probably. And it is mostly the case with Indian weddings where bride and groom get tired a lot and end up sleeping. Or it could be reverse too perhaps. But most of the time, the first wedding night is not like a first wedding movie night. 

Bride and groom starving

On your wedding day, guests, relatives, and friends all are eating tasty dishes and dancing and drinking while you sitting on the bride-groom chairs seeing them. You must be thinking that someone would ask you for eating but mostly in Indian wedding after the Phera ceremony, that takes place late in the night, bride and groom eat together for which you have to wait long. If you are lucky a friend could ask you for starters. 

Don’t be so stressed, release all the questions

Especially in arranged marriages where bride and groom don’t know each other, it is the troublesome situation for them when after all the tiredness, you see each other thinking it is going to happen while in reality, it takes time until or unless you know each other a little. So without taking any stress, release yourself from all the questions that are erupting in your mind. 

It is not sex, perhaps only talk

On that smile and that look of your wedding, seeing each other it is like feeling so much loved but when you come to your room for that special moment, you even could not lift yourself up. And when you sit on bed, your night start with just talks. It could be though exceptions are everywhere. 

Your whole wedding day goes in photography

Your wedding day is like a whole day photo session. So many relatives, friends and guests and they all want to get a pic with you provided they can remember your wedding night, and you can’t deny them though you want to because you are enough with the photo session. You want to be with each other but photo session kills and even your individual one too. 

Ask each other how you want to go 

Whether want to go with protection or without it. You should ask your partner because whatever is going to happen should and must happen when you both agree and especially if she agrees. And it is best if you talk. 

Consensual

If she says yes then go and she should also ask whether he wants to. It is because of the tiring wedding perhaps you don’t want to do. It could be from both sides. So whatever the decision comes from the partner you should always respect it. 

All night talking, it isn’t always about doing 

We can’t say what is going to happen on your wedding night when you will be with each other. There should be always a connection there then you can start, even a little can help. There is no problem in love marriages but in arranges ones, there could be. So start talking and your whole night you end up knowing each other, and it is more romantic with talk. 

So it is all that can happen with you on your moon night which perhaps you don’t have ideas about. Indian weddings are always tiring. Hence you know there is a huge difference between expectation and reality that no one tells you before your first wedding night.

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