It is not like the old days when a girl can’t see the man she is going to marry. Everything has changed now. At that time a wedding was fixed only by the parents’ meeting. They decided everything and a girl never got the chance of seeing the man whom she was going to marry.  These days, it is not like this. Your Marriage Life If Your Partner Has These Essential Qualities. Today’s women are educated, learned and have knowledge about almost anything. Now they marry the guy they like, whom they love and want to spend their entire life with them. 

No one is perfect, we all know. Yet there are some certain qualities a woman sees in her guy and it is always different according to different types of women. Some like this, some like that. Yet there are some essential qualities which should be in every man and woman if they want to spend their life happily after marriage. Or in simple words an ideal partner’s qualities which should exist in both man and woman, then they can only live jovially their entire life after marriage. And before marriage you must check these in your partner. Otherwise your life would go through a difficult phase. 

A Supporting Partner

Everyone has their certain ambitions, passions and goals in their life that they want to achieve. Sometime because of marriage, it gets stopped a little bit. But it doesn’t mean you cannot pursue it. If you have something for yourself that in your life you want to achieve then you should talk to your partner about that, and knowing it he/she should support it rather than saying no. Though it all depends on the circumstances in which you are and you should react according to that. But on the whole note, he/she should support it. This should be the case. 

Respect Your Family

As much as you respect your family. After marriage you should respect your partner family. It is the same respect you must need to give your partner’s family as you give to yours otherwise your companionship could soon come to an end. If you can’t respect your partner’s family then they won’t respect yours. 

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Responsible For Starting A Family

After marriage, it is usually the case that you want to start a family. Though it depends on both the partners when they want to.  Whenever you want to, you should first ask your partner whether they are interested at this time or in future or what they say about it. Because with a child comes a lot of responsibilities, which both the partners have to obey accordingly. It is not only one’s responsibility. So ask your partner before going to the next step. 

Your Man Financially Settled

We don’t know whether this is true or not that love is everything. Though it is but in this world if you want to live happily and want to buy whatever you want to buy then your man should be financially settled provided you both can go well in your coming life. Because without money one can’t buy anything in this world. So before marriage, you should know this about your partner, especially in Indian marriage where, it is still the case, that women are not allowed to do the job. Only men are the sole  bread bearer. Even though the time is changing. It isn’t always the case. So whatever it is you must know whether your man is financially settled or no before the marriage. 

Independent You Want To Go

As we said above time has changed. Men and women are equal in everything. So before marriage ask your partner whether they respect your independence or not, mean when you want to job or want to do anything to earn your livelihood on your own then they let you do so. It is the foremost vow that you need to ask them. 

Forgive Me

In a relationship, everything could happen. Sometimes it could go wrong too or misunderstandings could erupt. So rather than getting over each other, you should listen and if anyone’s mistake comes out then you should easily forgive your partner rather than blaming them for the mistake. 

Loyal

It is the most important vow of marriage that a partner expects from another partner, perhaps more than love it is. In a marriage a partner must be loyal to another otherwise there is no room for forgiveness in this loyalty case. 

These are the most essential and important qualities you must have yourself and your partner should have too. And if you have all these then your married life would go smoothly, perfectly and without any hiccup.